Saturday, December 11, 2010

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E

REALLY!?

I spent Friday at the food bank to help hand out toys for the little ones....And you wouldn't believe the ATTITUDE some people have........complaining because they have to WAIT........REALLY??? I was there for maybe....4 hours...others were there since 8am....we handed out toys till 2:30pm...that was a long day for some of us....And WOW did we get some nice stuff donated! New and used! One of the volunteers daughter is a publishers and some big publishing place and they donated loads of brand new books!


Thursday was my birthday and my friend Renee and here hubby took me to dinner! We went to Olive Garden...I had the steak gargonzola alfredo......ohhh yummie! and tiramusu for dessert....ohh yummie!


Today is roomies birthday.....seeing I have no money..I made her breakfast....fried potatoes...lol


My sister in law to be's car died..she was going to give me a ride to a free clinic, I would have gone by myself but it's in a "questionable" neighborhood...so I did not want to venture there on my own, I'll have to next Saturday if her car is not fixed, we also need to go pick up my dress (I'm maid of honor) not looking forward to that but hey....it is an honor..and I do like her....ok...I love her...and brother #1.

I still have a bad feeling that things will not work out for me going to school..I just can't seem to shake it....so aggrivating.......and depression is setting in....~~~~~~~~~SIGH~~~~

Sunday, December 5, 2010

SERIOUSLY!?

Well as you know I may be going to school January.......IF I can make it threw the fricken physical.....crap............leave it to me to come up POSITIVE on a TB skin test.....I have to now go get a cheat X-ray....sheesh....(I am not showing any "other" symtoms so I was told not to "FREAK" ) Well easier said than done......I was (am) terrified. But Brother #1 says not to worry he has come up positive also and didn't have it..........TWICE...so I did calm down a bit...Just a bit...I was also told by the Dr. that I am NOT passing this to anyone ......I wish I could be sure.....

I also need insurance to go to school......OMFG REALLY!?!?!?!?!?!? I seen some of the monthly rates!!!!!!!!!!!!ALMOST PASSED OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you freaken kidding me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? couldn't afford those when I was working!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How are people supposed to afford that???

We had our first snowfall...yuck......only an inch or two...I have not put up a tree yet...I'm just not in the mood for Christmas this year.....at all.

So that;s what's happening in Mel's world.....I will keep you posted

Saturday, November 27, 2010

BECAUSE OF LOVE!!!!

BECAUSE OF LOVE!!!!A brother and sister had made their usual hurried, obligatory pre-Christmas visit to the little farm where dwelt their elderly parents with their small herd of horses. The farm was where they had grown up and had been named Lone Pine Farm because of the huge pine, which topped the hill behind the farm. Through the years the tree had become a talisman to the old man and his wife, and a landmark in the countryside. The young siblings had fond memories of their childhood here, but the city hustle and bustle added more excitement to their lives, and called them away to a different life.The old folks no longer showed their horses, for the years had taken their toll, and getting out to the barn on those frosty mornings was getting harder, but it gave them a reason to get up in the mornings and a reason to live. They sold a few foals each year, and the horses were their reason for joy in the morning and contentment at day's end.
Angry, as they prepared to leave, the young couple confronted the old folks "Why do you not at least dispose of “The Old One." She is no longer of use to you. It's been years since you've had foals from her. You should cut corners and save so you can have more for yourselves. How can this old worn out horse bring you anything but expense and work? Why do you keep her anyway?"
The old man looked down at his worn boots, holes in the toes, scuffed at the barn floor and replied, " Yes, I could use a pair of new boots.
His arm slid defensively about the Old One's neck as he drew her near with gentle caressing he rubbed her softly behind her ears. He replied softly, "We keep her because of love. Nothing else, just love.
Baffled and irritated, the young folks wished the old man and his wife a Merry Christmas and headed back toward the city as darkness stole through the valley.
The old couple shook their heads in sorrow that it had not been a happy visit. A tear fell upon their cheeks. How is it that these young folks do not understand the peace of the love that filled their hearts?
So it was, that because of the unhappy leave-taking, no one noticed the insulation smoldering on the frayed wires in the old barn. None saw the first spark fall. None but the "Old One".
In a matter of minutes, the whole barn was ablaze and the hungry flames were licking at the loft full of hay. With a cry of horror and despair, the old man shouted to his wife to call for help as he raced to the barn to save their beloved horses. But the flames were roaring now, and the blazing heat drove him back. He sank sobbing to the ground, helpless before the fire's fury. His wife back from calling for help cradled him in her arms, clinging to each other, they wept at their loss.
By the time the fire department arrived, only smoking, glowing ruins were left, and the old man and his wife, exhausted from their grief, huddled together before the barn. They were speechless as they rose from the cold snow covered ground. They nodded thanks to the firemen, as there was nothing anyone could do now. The old man turned to his wife, resting her white head upon his shoulders as his shaking old hands clumsily dried her tears with a frayed red bandana. Brokenly he whispered, "We have lost much, but God has spared our home on this eve of Christmas. Let us gather strength and climb the hill to the old pine where we have sought comfort in times of despair. We will look down upon our home and give thanks to God that it has been spared and pray for our beloved most precious gifts that have been taken from us.
And so, he took her by the hand and slowly helped her up the snowy hill as he brushed aside his own tears with the back of his old and withered hand; the journey up the hill was hard for their old bodies in the steep snow.As they stepped over the little knoll at the crest of the hill, they paused to rest; looking up to the top of the hill the old couple gasped and fell to their knees in amazement at the incredible beauty before them. Seemingly, every glorious, brilliant star in the heavens was caught up in the glittering, snow-frosted branches of their beloved pine, and it was aglow with heavenly candles. And poised on its top most bough, a crystal crescent moon glistened like spun glass. Never had a mere mortal created a Christmas tree such as this. They were breathless as the old man held his wife tighter in his arms.
Suddenly, the old man gave a cry of wonder and incredible joy. Amazed and mystified, he took his wife by the hand and pulled her forward. There, beneath the tree, in resplendent glory, a mist hovering over and glowing in the darkness was their Christmas gift.
Shadows glistening in the night; bedded down about the "Old One" close to the trunk of the tree, was the entire herd, safe. At the first hint of smoke, she had pushed the door ajar with her muzzle and had led the horses through it. Slowly and with great dignity, never looking back, she had led them up the hill, stepping cautiously through the snow. The foals were frightened and dashed about. The skittish yearlings looked back at the crackling, hungry flames, and tucked their tails under them as they licked their lips and hopped like rabbits. The mares that were in foal with a new years crop of babies, pressed uneasily against the "Old One" as she moved calmly up the hill and to safety beneath the pine. And now she lay among them and gazed at the faces of the old man and his wife. Those she loved she had not disappointed. Her body was brittle with years, tired from the climb, but the golden eyes were filled with devotion as she offered her gift---Because of love. Only Because of love. flowed as the old couple shouted their praise and joy... And again the peace of love filled their hearts.
This is a true story.
This is an Inspirational message sent to a small group of people. My hope is that it will make your day just a little bit better.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did Ya Ever Wonder How Pumpkin Pies Are Made??????

HAVE A SAFE AND HAPPY DAY!!






Thursday, November 18, 2010

REALLY!?

As most of you know I volunteer weekly at a local food bank.....and we can get a family just about anything they need if ..say... they have a house fire or whatever....we have clothes to hand out if needed we hand out toys for Christmas......warm blankets and warm clothes for the homeless sleeping bags for them too...Well this last Wednesday we had 3 winter baby buntings (?) you know the winter thingy's for baby's that look like a bag with hoods ...well any way..during the course of 2 hours....3 of them were stolen.....It gets kinda crazy there so it is impossible for the people to keep an eye on everything but dang......I just don't understand the mentality of some people.........makes me sick..it rally does.......and we are getting busier and busier when I first started there about a year ago we seved anywhere from 90 to maybe 100 families a week.....now we regularly serve 150 families a week.......next week (week before Thanksgiving) will be a killer....(I'm usually gone but I cannot afford to go by Aunt Irma this year....My heart is broken....I will not be there this year) But I guess last year 250 families came to get food...

All the volunteers got a letter of thanks from the food pantry...and told us how many families and individuals we serve.....2,093 men,women and children in 642 families in September alone.During our 2010 year which ended on September 30...we registered 2,408 unique households....serving a total of 6,443 households (I'm sure this strange totals represents more than one family per home) representing 11,630 men, women and 9,921 children . That to me is an awful lot of people who for some reason not to be able to support their families...Ok I'll shut up there that another rage for me...lol ANYWAY.......

Guess what I got in the mail Wednesday???? Go ahead guess!!!!

I GOT MY ACCEPTANCE LETTER FOR COLLEGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I start January 3rd! I still got a few things to get done first but I'm in!!!

WOOOOO HOOOOO I'm on my way to getting smart...lol

Monday, November 15, 2010

HOW TO BE A GRACIOUS BITCH

HOW TO BE A GRACIOUS BITCH Jennifer's wedding day was fast approaching.
Nothing could dampen her excitement - not even her parent's nasty divorce.Her mother had found the PERFECT dress to wear, and would be the best-dressed mother-of-the-bride ever!

A week later, Jennifer was horrified to learn that her father's new, young wife had bought the exact same dress as her mother!Jennifer asked her father's new young wife to exchange it, but she refused. ''Absolutely not! I look like a million bucks in this dress, and I'm wearing it,'' she replied.Jennifer told her mother who graciously said, ''Never mind sweetheart. I'll get another dress. After all, it's your special day.''A few days later, they went shopping, and did find another gorgeous dress for her mother.
When they stopped for lunch, Jennifer asked her mother, ''Aren't you going to return the other dress? You really don't have another occasion where you could wear it."
Her mother just smiled and replied, ''Of course I do, dear.....I'm wearing it to the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding.''
(NOW I ASK YOU - IS THERE A WOMAN OUT THERE, ANYWHERE, WHO WOULDN'T ENJOY THIS STORY?)


HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE!!

Friday, November 5, 2010

THIS AND THAT......

I got his shot outside my door......it was just hanging there....spider webs are stong I guess...lol
It was quite windy at times too....

I spent holloween here in Belgium Wisconsin...By my friend Betty and Paul's house....(Betty lived next door to me since she was born)



This was someone's house cute decor..lol


This is Betty.................isn't she beautifull! I didn't get a shot of Paul :(





This is Landon...he is 7 I think he is Betty and Paul's older son. Paul asked bvefore we left for trick or treating How long BEFORE I am carrying this stuff? (the sheild and sword)...lol......20 min...lol......amoung the other complaints....How much longer? Are we done yet....Can we go home now...?......lol kids today are such wussies.





This is the little cutie pie who just turned 2 the day before.....This is Dylan.......






This is Emily....she turned 5 today!! This is Rachel and Joe's youngest...her older sister is 19..lol
Little Emily is NOT a girlie girl......she plays football.(tosses that ball with a perfect spiral!!)....likes cars no intrest in dolls....and like Mustang cars.....Very unlike her older sister Whitney.....ALL girl......
I am sooooo glad the elections are over no more phone calls...people coming to the door...ugh
Brother #1 sent me my birthday present.....a month early......but that's ok I'll can use the cash for the application fee for school. ( I will get the money back)
anywho...that's what's been happening with me......besides watching tv.....and job hunting....
My fav show lately is "Unsolved Mysteries"..lol.....I was watching 1000 way to die and Disorderly .......something or other....1000 ways to die is kinda morbid...It's alledgedly about the stupid way people actually die.......but I gotta wonder...some of them seem a bit "far fetched" if you ask me but....Others...well let's just say ..you can't fix stupid....The other one is police vidioes...from the different police staions...high speed chases and sobriety tests...lol some of them are funny......and of course..I'm a big C.S.I. fan so I watch alot of reruns of that.....and All in the Family...lol.
Till next time....later